Have you just suffered through a recent breakup with your ex? Do you think it was a mistake to do so? If you do, you might be tempted to try to reconcile immediately, but don’t. It’s understandable that you want to “state your case” in the hopes that your ex will hear you and want you back, but it’s likely only to make you more disappointed and hurt. You can, however, win back your ex in 25 days without going through this sort of heartache. There are three things you can do that will help you to be back together within 25 days.

First, be honest with yourself and see what needs to be changed if you are to reconcile with your ex. This is the hardest part, because a lot of us don’t want to see our flaws or faults, and we don’t want to admit that we’ve made mistakes. Therefore, it’s pretty easy to simply push this part of the process aside and not choose to deal with our own faults head on. However, we have to if we’re going to see and heal the issues within ourselves that contributed to the breakup. For example, if you lied a lot in the relationship, you have to be honest with yourself and start fixing this before you try getting back with your ex. Did your ex feel unappreciated? Did you spend enough time with him or her? You have to ask yourself a lot of hard questions before you even try to win back your ex.

Now the first thing to do is to perform an honest self assessment with yourself and explore those areas that could use improvement. It’s best to write these items down so you can plainly see them. Brainstorm for two or three days, contemplating simple changes you can make to allow this relationship to flourish. This is nothing that you need to share with anyone. Instead, this is for your own reference.

Your second assignment is to work on those changes you’ve defined need to be done within yourself. This particular area of self-improvement is very important because if you avoid doing this, it’s going to be worthless to even try winning your ex back. If, for example, your ex didn’t like the way you dressed, then it may be true that you need to change your style. Work on changing your wardrobe and try dressing the way your ex wants you to. If lack of confidence within you was an issue, then try to work on having self-confidence. If your ex hated that you didn’t prefer to be social, then try to improve social skills by getting around friends and family you’re comfortable with. Do whatever you need to do to make positive changes and improve yourself.

Your third assignment is to begin to slowly reintegrate yourself into your ex’s life so that he or she can see the changes you’ve made. Don’t try to win your ex back just yet. Instead, simply let her see the positive changes you’ve made and showcase those good qualities you have that your ex always wanted. In addition, when you see your ex, make sure you say how sorry you are for your contribution to the relationship’s breakup. Speak kindly yet confidently when you talk to him or her. It’s a guaranteed outcome that if you follow the steps above and finish with this one, you’re ex will begin to see that breaking up with you was a mistake and will want to be with you once again.

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