Feeling unloved, well don’t. Some people really are unloved, simply because they won’t open up to the idea of love. Once you get to the point of feeling as though no one loves you then you are ready to open up. Take a trip to Asia, no matter how old you are the girls over there will love you, even if it is only for a short time.

Are your expectations of yourself and/or your partner unrealistic? Do you think that the love that is portrayed on TV and in the Movies is real? Nothing is ever as easy as you see on TV, you have to work at a relationship to make it work, nothing will ever drop into your lap or fall into place without effort. As the Bible says, “God helps those who help themselves”.

When you meet someone who you find attractive you make an effort, you tidy yourself up and you do things that you think will impress the object of your attentions. You make an effort to please them in order to win their affection. The problem a lot of people have is that once they have won the affection which they were seeking they stop making the effort. That’s when your chosen one starts thinking that you have changed and that you are no longer interested in them.

I have known quite a few men who have walked into a bar in Manila bought one of the bar girls a drink, paid their bar fine and took them back to the hotel for the night and ended up marrying the girl. Of course it wasn’t love at first sight, it was a business deal. Money for sex. But the girl gave the man what he wanted and he gave the girl what she wanted.

They enjoyed each others company, and it’s not hard for a man to fall in love with a woman who will help you fulfill your every fantasy. He gave her and her family the security that they never had. She migrated back to his home country and made a home for him like no other he had ever had.

He finally realized that it wasn’t the women who were the problem, it was him. He was too demanding, he finally settled down and has been with the same girl for 3yrs now, once again she looks a lot like his first wife, but he will never get her back, so he is prepared to settle for second or third best. At least he has settled, and he is now saying that he is in love.

Love is something that comes from within, you have to give it before you get it. Many times I have heard of people go out and looking for the love that they feel is missing from their lives; they never find it. Sometimes you have to stop looking for love and get on with your life, if you are an open and accepting person the love with find you, you don’t have to go out looking for it.

Don’t think of them as prostitutes, think of them as survivors, and lets face it, you are probably in your 40’s or 50’s by the time you get to the stage of your life where you are going to go to Asia to find a wife. At 50, you don’t want a virgin, and even if you do, you aren’t going to get one. Who cares if the one you love worked in a bar half way across the world.

You can find love, if you are looking for it, and even if you pay for sex, even that can, with nurturing and a certain amount of a lack of jealousy, turn into love. You will never be sorry about taking a trip to Asia and sampling the delights of the Orient. You could end up returning home with a beautiful and wonderful wife.

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