The initial reaction of many who get dumped by their girlfriend is too long to make an impact. Many however, lose interest in her soon after succeeding to win her back. If you have just lost your girlfriend you probably would want to do all to get her back. First take the time to consider if you really want to. Getting a girl back is quite more difficult than getting a new girl. If after your self examination you still feel the desire to get her back and reclaim your spot in her life, you should try out these five practical steps.

Why did she leave?

When a lady drops her man there is usually a reason. She might have met another more attractive of interesting man. You constant neglecting of her complaints about offensive habits might have pushed her off. Sometimes she simply falls out of love or might no longer finds you attractive or loses romantic interest in you. Another possibility might be that she just went through or is still going through a dramatic phase in her life. When you can accurately pinpoint why she left you are better equipped to make plans to get her back. Another advantage of identifying the breakup reason is that it allows you to forecast the possibility of getting her back. If there is another man now in her life you would find your task relatively more difficult.

Correct your mistakes

Based on the errors or problems you were able to identify above make steps to make changes. If you really want her back you want to become that man she would want back. No need to start sending flowers and letters or mails explaining how you have changed and begging to be taken back. The more you press yourself on her the less she would want you. She needs a man not a whimpering child. A woman would drop you when you no longer provide excitement or become less attractive. Work on building your initiative, assertiveness, confidence, determination, and an interesting personality.

See other women

This might seem a shocking move to get your ex girl back but sure is an effective one. Once she sees that other women still find you attractive she begins to question her decision. Like other women she probably likes men that are liked by other women. Jealousy sparks of a renewed interest in you. Just be sure not to get too deeply involved with you new dates. The aim is to broaden your perspective on women and let her see how well other women enjoy your company.

Become her friend

At this stage you are seeking a platform to show her the new you. Invite her for a friendly date and act cool and casual. Do not over do things just let her see the new you that is attracting women your way. Hint and not harp on your new date. Be an interested friend without saying much about your past and certainly not about what lead to the breakup. Keep contact with her as a concerned friend.

Now use attraction techniques to get her back

At this stage you are back on talking terms with your ex. She knows that you have other women options open to you and she is probably screaming why you are not asking her back. Concentrate on increasing time spent with her, making her see how much you have changed and how much fun you are.

She is now soft and ready; the ball is literally in your court to make it happen again.

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